Offense through a person is a wrong belief brought to us through the spirit world when in reality we need to have righteous indignation against the spirit that would cause people to offend us. Not the person. The person needs recovered from it. Offense is a flag for work of the enemy. Don't take it personally and receive what that evil spirit wants to give you. Instead recognize what it is. An opportunity to pray for that person to be set free from their hurts, hangups and addictions that opened the door for that spirit of offense to settle in. Don't let it transfer to you! Love that person!