They don't have it together. In Japan hey don't believe this. there is an ancient art form called kintsugi. When a piece of pottery is broken, instead of tossing these pieces in the trash, craftsmen practice kintsugi, or “golden joinery,” which is a method of restoring a broken piece with a lacquer that is mixed with gold, silver, or platinum. (glue sticks) The pottery is often more beautiful than it was before. This art also conveys a philosophy not of replacement, but of awe, reverence, and restoration. BUT HERE'S .... WHAT GOD DOES FOR US : No matter how broken, he mends us and makes us stronger and more beautiful than before. 2Cor. 12:10 'That is why, for Christ's sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.'